Heal My Broken Heart

                Imagine yourself being in love. There’s a certain feeling that you’re on Cloud 9, like heaven. There’s someone caring and loving you. You won’t wonder anything worse will happen. You fell that you’re safe with the one you love. How sweet that thoughts could be, right? But, can you imagine being betrayed after giving your all? It’s like you invested a lot of money to a bankrupt bank.

                After you have given all the emotions to a person, yet that one chose to break your heart, moving on is not an easy thing. Being heart-broken is a natural thing about love. That is a sign that you really know how and what love is. But how can we move on from being shattered?

                As a not-so-expert when it comes to love, I used to give comments or pieces of advice to my friends who are suffering from heartaches. I’m giving what I know and based on what I have experienced. For those who are suffering from this kind of ache and want to move on, here are things that I could share and will help you, not eventually but hopefully.

1. Cry. Crying is the best outlet for us to lessen the “heavy” feeling. Surely, after a break up, there will always be someone that will cry. But remember, it’s not the end of the world. It’s just the end of a relationship that will lead you to a better one.

2. Pamper yourself. For sure, after crying, you will look like a handwriting only doctors can read. Go to a salon and give yourself a new look or to a spa for a relaxing massage.

3. Eat. Usually brokenhearted people are stressed so they tend to eat desserts and other comfort food that they know. They feel that eating this kind of food is a sort of stress reliever.

4. Go out with family or friends. Being with the ones you love truly gives you that loving feeling. Surround yourself with the ones that really love and care for you.

5. Forgive and forget. We all know that this isn’t easy but we have to do it. We could forgive at the moment but we can’t eventually forget. This process is slowly but surely. In time, all the wounds and pain would go away. Just do what you want and will make you happy.

           Moving on is hard if you let yourself haunted by the memories with the one who broke your heart. There are lots of reasons and ways to move on. Don’t be sad because you’re broken but be thankful because God is leading you away to the wrong person. Just enjoy your life now. Love will make its way for you to be with the one who truly care and love you.